2303 Deliberate hatred is contrary to charity. Hatred of the neighbor is a sin when one deliberately wishes him evil. Hatred of the neighbor is a grave sin when one deliberately desires him grave harm. “But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven.”
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what do you do if you can no longer tolerate someone in your family?
First, It is best to discern why you can no longer tolerate them. For example, is it a personality conflict? Or is it abuse? Is it from you or is it from them? Are they failing to respect your human diginity or that of others? Or are you failing to respect their human dignity? Once you have established the true reason, specific prayer and confession is a good start. Prior to all that, consider prayer to the Holy Spirit to reveal your intolerance, why, and from whom to seek spiritual guidance.