The beautiful story of a mom who wrote a letter to a doctor who had recommended she get an abortion is now going viral.  Courtney Baker is the courageous mother who not only chose life for her daughter, Emersyn Faith, but also answered the call to let the specialist know that she is more than happy that she did not succumb to the pressure to abort her baby just because of a prenatal diagnosis of Down Syndrome.

After Ms. Baker mailed the letter to her doctor, it was shared on the Parker Myles Facebook page. Since then ABC News picked up the story and currently this amazing story that demonstrates the beauty that can be found in all life  is trending on social media.

At only 15 months old, the life of  little Emersyn Faith is already touching the hearts of millions.  We can’t wait to see what God has planned for her future! Our prayers are with this family as they continue to be a witness to the joy that all life brings.

Dear Doctor,

A friend recently told me of when her prenatal specialist would see her child during her sonograms, he would comment, “He’s perfect.” Once her son was born with Down syndrome, she visited that same doctor. He looked at her little boy and said, “I told you. He’s perfect.”

Her story tore me apart. While I was so grateful for my friend’s experience, it filled me with such sorrow because of what I should have had. I wish you would have been that doctor.

I came to you during the most difficult time in my life. I was terrified, anxious and in complete despair. I didn’t know the truth yet about my baby, and that’s what I desperately needed from you. But instead of support and encouragement, you suggested we terminate our child. I told you her name, and you asked us again if we understood how low our quality of life would be with a child with Down syndrome. You suggested we reconsider our decision to continue the pregnancy.

From that first visit, we dreaded our appointments. The most difficult time in my life was made nearly unbearable because you never told me the truth. My child was perfect.

I’m not angry. I’m not bitter. I’m really just sad. I’m sad the tiny beating hearts you see every day don’t fill you with a perpetual awe. I’m sad the intricate details and the miracle of those sweet little fingers and toes, lungs and eyes and ears don’t always give you pause. I’m sad you were so very wrong to say a baby with Down syndrome would decrease our quality of life. And I’m heartbroken you might have said that to a mommy even today. But I’m mostly sad you’ll never have the privilege of knowing my daughter, Emersyn.

Because, you see, Emersyn has not only added to our quality of life, she’s touched the hearts of thousands. She’s given us a purpose and a joy that is impossible to express.She’s given us bigger smiles, more laughter and sweeter kisses than we’ve ever known. She’s opened our eyes to true beauty and pure love.

So my prayer is that no other mommy will have to go through what I did. My prayer is that you, too, will now see true beauty and pure love with every sonogram.

And my prayer is when you see that next baby with Down syndrome lovingly tucked in her mother’s womb, you will look at that mommy and see me then tell her the truth:“Your child is perfect.”

Becky Roach lives in Ohio with her husband and five children. When not doing laundry or making memories with her kids, Becky enjoys diet coke and date nights with her husband.

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  1. My daughter, Erin Maria, turned 20 on March 20th. She is the youngest of 4, of the youngest of 4, of the youngest of 4. Having had three sons within 15 months of each other (eldest at age 32, identical twins at age 33), I knew what my doctor would likely say, so I intentionally waited until I was 22 weeks along before visiting his office with the news of my pregnancy. My rosary was bedside for her delivery. Down syndrome was not even mentioned by the attending nurse or physician, for legal reasons. I left and brought my daughter home to meet her brothers, with a Mother’s Day Baptism Sun14May2000. She is my ‘1st day of Spring’ all year long. Glory be to the Trinity!


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